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(2007)<\/p>\n

It’s a time of firsts for the Jews of Calabria, the region of Italy in the deep south or the \u201cfoot of the boot.\u201d\u00a0\u00a0 Rabbi Barbara Aiello, whose Jewish ancestors were once crypto or secret Italian Jews, became the first woman rabbi and first Progressive rabbi in Italy just three years ago.\u00a0 She was spiritual leader of Synagogue Lev Chadash in Milan and served havurot in Florence, Rome, Padua, and Turin.<\/p>\n

This year, with the help of the Vuolo-Bernstein Family Foundation, she established the Italian Jewish Cultural Center of Calabria (IJCCC) along with Synagogue Ner Tamid del Sud, the first functioning synagogue since Inquisition times. \u00a0In May, as Aiello relates, this synagogue \u201chosted the first Jewish wedding to take place in Calabria since the long arm of Torquemada reached into Sicily and Calabria, forcing Jews to convert or be killed.\u201d\u00a0 The wedding was held at Nicastro the old fortification from the first century that overlooks the \u2018Timpone,\u2019 the Jewish Quarter that dates from the 9th century and is still intact.\u00a0 The castle looked down upon what was once the original synagogue (it is now a Catholic Church).\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0 \u00a0As Aiello describes, \u201cIn this beautiful setting Andrew Ewart and Lupe Torres were married under the chuppah.\u00a0 They exchanged wedding vows using the ancient Italian Jewish practice of wrapping the couple in the tallit, symbolizing God\u2019s loving embrace.\u201d<\/p>\n

In June, Ner Tamid del Sud hosted its first bar mitzvah, when Tyler Waldman was so honored.\u00a0 According to Aiello, \u201cThe family chose Calabria because the parents wanted their son to fully experience what it is like to be Jewish in an isolated and lost community.\u00a0 It is their hope that the experience in Calabria will make him more appreciative of his Jewish heritage.\u201d<\/p>\n

Local Calabrian historian Professor Vincenzo Villella has been instrumental in documenting the Jewish presence in Calabria since ancient times.\u00a0 Prior to the Jews\u2019 expulsion from Spain and subsequent forced conversions during the Inquisition, the Jewish population of Calabria was nearly 50 percent of the total.<\/p>\n

Now, with the advent of the IJCCC, synagoga Ner Tamid and a rabbi living and working in Calabria, the Jews of Calabria have the opportunity to reconnect with their roots and traditions that characterize them as the oldest Jews in the Diaspora.\u00a0 During this process, Aiello has heard many fascinating family histories, and is planning to write a book about them. She cites two examples:<\/p>\n

\u201cIn Sicily one of my students, Saro, was present as his father was dying.\u00a0 Over and over his father repeated \u2018Elohim, Elohim<\/em>.\u2019\u00a0 This was many years ago and Saro had no idea what the word meant or even what language it was from.\u00a0 Fifteen years later, when the Internet came to Sicily, Saro began researching his father’s dying word, and reconnected with his lost Jewish heritage!<\/p>\n

\u201cThen, just three weeks ago, an elderly woman on my street (in Calabria) passed away.\u00a0 I was friendly with her so her son invited me to the house.\u00a0 He told me that there would be no funeral in the local church because \u2018non siamo una parte della chiesa<\/em>\u2019\u00a0 (we are not a part of the church).\u00a0 I went to the house and found everyone sitting on low chairs with all the mirrors covered in black.\u00a0 We were served hard-boiled eggs and told to return for Tredicesimo<\/em>, the 30-day anniversary that ends the mourning period!\u00a0 Sheloshim<\/em>?\u00a0 Seems like it.\u00a0 When I spoke to the son about these customs and mentioned that they are Jewish traditions, he said, \u2018I always thought we were Jewish but my parents would never be specific.\u00a0 They were afraid.\u2019\u201d<\/p>\n

These stories remind Aiello of her own family history, and of her responsibility.\u00a0 She has told Kulanu:<\/p>\n

As a Jew with “Marrano” roots, I am especially blessed to have the opportunity to serve Jews in Italy who long for a connection to traditions and a heritage that were so cruelly taken from them centuries ago.\u00a0 I collect oral histories of my people… from Sicily to Sardinia to Calabria … where families have heard something somewhere about “gl’ebre,i” about being Jewish, and are hungry to recapture their heritage.\u00a0 My own father often said to me, “Cara mia, once we had a rich and colorful tapestry to pass on. Now I give you only a few threads…”\u00a0 But for me these threads are precious.\u00a0 They represent the revival of Calabrian Jewish heritage, a step forward from isolation into the Calabrian sun, and for this reason they are pure gold.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n

For more information, contact rabbi @ rabbibarbara.com<\/a> or visit www.rabbibarbara.com<\/a>.<\/p>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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